Titans/Young Justice:  Graduation Day
small TPB containing the 3 issue mini

Identity Crisis (HC)
I just got the hardcover for this one.  I tried it before with tie-ins added…sort of screws with the pacing.

Identity Crisis:  The Fallout
Flash #214-216
JSA #67 (minus the epilogue)
Flash #217
Teen Titans #20-23

Teen Titans/Outsiders:  The Insiders
Outsiders #21-23
Teen Titans #24
Outsiders #24
Teen Titans #25
Outsiders #25
DC Special:  The Return of Donna Troy #1-4
Outsiders #28
Teen Titans #26

The OMAC Project
Countdown to Infinite Crisis
OMAC Project #1-3
Superman #219
Action Comics #829
Adventures of Superman #642
Wonder Woman #219
OMAC Project #4
Wonder Woman #220
Adventures of Superman #643
OMAC Project #5-6

Villains United (TPB)
#1-6

Power Girl (TPB)
includes JSA Classified #1-4

JLA:  Crisis of Conscience (TPB)
#115-119

Rann-Thanagar War
Adam Strange #1-8
Hawkman #46
Rann-Thanagar War #1-6

Day of Vengeance (TPB)
Action Comics #826
Adventures of Superman #639
Superman #216
Day of Vengeance #1-6

Infinite Crisis
Infinite Crisis #1
Teen Titans #29
Infinite Crisis #2
Infinite Crisis #3 (up to end of WW scene, then the last two pages of Superman in the Batcave)
JSA #82
Infinite Crisis #3 (Lex Luthor scene and last 6 pages)
Day of Vengeance:  Infinite Crisis #1
Infinite Crisis #4 (first 6 pages)
Nightwing #116
Adventures of Superman #648
Infinite Crisis #4 (remaining pages)
Rann-Thanagar War:  Infinite Crisis #1
Infinite Crisis Secret Files
Infinite Crisis #5 (up to Blue Beetle in Batcave, the TT page is skipped because it is expanded in the Annual)
Teen Titans Annual #1
Infinite Crisis #5 (Earth-Two scenes up to Superman smashing the car)
Superman #226
Action Comics #836
Adventures of Superman #649
Infinite Crisis #5 (rest of issue)
Teen Titans #33
Infinite Crisis #6
OMAC Project:  Infinite Crisis #1
Villains United:  Infinite Crisis #1
Infinite Crisis #7

I actually got the Infinite Crisis TPB and cannabalized that for this book, hence the lack of page numbers.